5 More Doggie Style Position Variations
Ah, doggie style, the position most animals get it on in, humans being no exception. As one of men's and women's favorite sexual positions, doggie has been a welcome addition to people's sexual lives for ages.
And the last time I advised you on adding some variety to your doggie styles, you maneuvered yourself and your girl into sexual oblivion. Well, now, here are five more variations you can try.
1- Tight-legged
Getting into the typical doggie stance, have your girl keep her legs closed and open yours around them. As well, get her to arch her back and lean on her hands rather than lean down and rest on her elbows on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be on). To help her maintain that stance, wrap your hand around her hair and give it an occasional tug while you're having sex.
In addition to hair pulling, you can rub her spine lightly and even hug her waist while you penetrate her.
2- Upright torsos
Get into your regular doggie stance, but lift your and your girl's torsos so that you're upright while you penetrate. Doing this in a location where she's facing the wall or, say, the bedpost, will allow her to place her hands there to maintain balance while you're going in and out.
Use your free hands to caress her breasts and butt, rub her shoulders and get a better grip for penetration. This position also allow you room to more easily kiss her mouth and neck.
Get off the bed, then make her get off..
3- Stand down, boy
While she bends over on the edge of the bed, her feet and shins hanging off it, you stand against it and make your way in. Of course, if the bed is too high or you have a significant height difference, you will have to make some adjustments.
She can raise or lower her body to accommodate you, and you can stand straight or bend your knees.
4- Stand down, girl
If she's much shorter than you, you may not want to attempt this position. Otherwise, have her face the other way and bend down so that her butt is sticking out towards you. Her torso should be parallel to the ground.
While you kneel on the edge of the bed, hold on to her hips and make your way in. Make sure to go slowly, as she needs to maintain her balance. Better yet, let her control the tempo.
5- Climb to the top
While she's in position, stand up and place your body right above her butt. Then, bend down so that you can place your penis inside her.
Ensure that you're balanced; otherwise you may end up falling on top of her. Place your hands on her back without pressing down, or use the help of a wall or bedpost to maintain balance.
Be careful not to thrust too quickly initially; ensure that she enjoys the sensation first.
it's a doggie style world
Now that you have even more variety to add to your bedroom ventures, make sure that you use them sparingly and wisely.
And don't forget that penetration is just a fraction of what good sex entails. Make every moment count.
Until next time, go at it like animals.
And the last time I advised you on adding some variety to your doggie styles, you maneuvered yourself and your girl into sexual oblivion. Well, now, here are five more variations you can try.
1- Tight-legged
Getting into the typical doggie stance, have your girl keep her legs closed and open yours around them. As well, get her to arch her back and lean on her hands rather than lean down and rest on her elbows on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be on). To help her maintain that stance, wrap your hand around her hair and give it an occasional tug while you're having sex.
In addition to hair pulling, you can rub her spine lightly and even hug her waist while you penetrate her.
2- Upright torsos
Get into your regular doggie stance, but lift your and your girl's torsos so that you're upright while you penetrate. Doing this in a location where she's facing the wall or, say, the bedpost, will allow her to place her hands there to maintain balance while you're going in and out.
Use your free hands to caress her breasts and butt, rub her shoulders and get a better grip for penetration. This position also allow you room to more easily kiss her mouth and neck.
Get off the bed, then make her get off..
3- Stand down, boy
While she bends over on the edge of the bed, her feet and shins hanging off it, you stand against it and make your way in. Of course, if the bed is too high or you have a significant height difference, you will have to make some adjustments.
She can raise or lower her body to accommodate you, and you can stand straight or bend your knees.
4- Stand down, girl
If she's much shorter than you, you may not want to attempt this position. Otherwise, have her face the other way and bend down so that her butt is sticking out towards you. Her torso should be parallel to the ground.
While you kneel on the edge of the bed, hold on to her hips and make your way in. Make sure to go slowly, as she needs to maintain her balance. Better yet, let her control the tempo.
5- Climb to the top
While she's in position, stand up and place your body right above her butt. Then, bend down so that you can place your penis inside her.
Ensure that you're balanced; otherwise you may end up falling on top of her. Place your hands on her back without pressing down, or use the help of a wall or bedpost to maintain balance.
Be careful not to thrust too quickly initially; ensure that she enjoys the sensation first.
it's a doggie style world
Now that you have even more variety to add to your bedroom ventures, make sure that you use them sparingly and wisely.
And don't forget that penetration is just a fraction of what good sex entails. Make every moment count.
Until next time, go at it like animals.
Sexual Positions Women Enjoy
Let's face reality; women don't think that reaching orgasm is a lucky shot in the dark anymore -- nowadays, they want their juices to flow and they want it now. Today's sex tip will help every man learn about some of the great sexual positions that most women prefer. And sorry guys, on her knees performing fellatio didn't make the cut.
More often than not, women are assertive and no longer behave like quiet little mice when it comes to sexual scenarios. Actually, the fact that most guys try so hard (there's that play on words again) to get their women to achieve orgasm is quite evident of this fact.
The following are five sexual positions that many women enjoy. So the next time you're about to get down to the nitty-gritty with your woman, try the following positions and ensure that she receives some great orgasmic pleasure.
private lap dance
Some women love being on top when it comes to sex. Why? It's all about control, and having the liberty of getting herself off is quite tantalizing. If she likes, she can give herself a clitoral or G-spot orgasm, or even both (with your help, of course).
If she lies on top of you and sways back and forth, pressing against your pubic bone, then she's aiming for the clitty climax. If she remains erect but leans forward, resting her weight on her hands while she goes up and down in a constant motion, get ready because she's doing her G-thing.
Then again, there are those multi-talented women that are able to take a man deep inside their vagina, swivel their hips as though they're dancing, and all the while, they periodically squeeze their Kegel muscles. This drives me... I mean men wild.
An even crazier position involves her squatting -- she kneels on her feet and only her vagina and your penis are connected (literally). This is quite an enticing position for both parties involved, although she must have stamina to keep it up.
The best thing about having your woman on top is that you get to watch her enjoy and pleasure herself with your body. You get to watch as she reaches immeasurable orgasmic heights while your hands are free to rub, hold, scratch, and maneuver her taut body.
the comfort zone
Believe it or not, lots of women love the missionary position. Yes, now I know that this position is considered to be the flannel pajamas of sex, but sex doesn't always have to involve swinging from the chandeliers and rough play.
Sometimes women (and even men, believe it or not) want to make "body love," which involves a whole lot more than just a vagina, breasts and a penis. There's eye contact, body massaging, and silent communication -- women love feeling like they're at the center of a man's world and what better way to show her you love her than to literally make love with her?
You don't have to keep up the typical in-out in-out motions of missionary either. Place a pillow under her buttocks, hold your upper body up with your arms, or even hold her butt with your hands (and she can do the same) -- all the while maneuvering as though you're dancing inside her body.
stand at erection
Although chances are that you won't last for very long in this position (I know I always lose control), an orgasm (or two) is virtually guaranteed for her with this one. Have her sit up on a countertop, tabletop, washing machine, sink -- any surface that'll have her at the perfect thrust position.
Standing in front of her while she's spread eagle (legs open), plunge yourself inside. Because you're going deep within her, it's sure to cause you to reach climax somewhat quickly. As well, you'll be tapping her G-spot at a constant pace and you may even get her to ejaculate all over your member.
Also, since you're out of the bedroom, it adds an element of intrigue and excitement for both of you. Sometimes, even women want to get to the orgasm part of lovemaking rather than have elaborate "last forever" sex. So read your partner's messages and if she's in the mood to reach immediate heights of pleasure, then give the lady what she wants.
She wants you to try the spoon position..
spooning it
While she's lying down on her side with her back facing you, you can let yourself inside her from behind. The great thing about this position is that you can hug her, whisper dirty little things in her ear, rub her breasts, feel the silhouette of her body, and kiss, suck and lick her neck and back.
Also, you can vary this position: she can turn her body so that her legs go over yours (her feet are in front of your butt) and she can look at you while you penetrate her at will. This position, as well as the "spoon," is not intended to be fast-paced, but rather slow and rhythmic.
The great thing about this position is that it allows for slow maneuvering and makes women feel like you're enjoying their entire body rather than just the sexualized parts. Even if she can't stand doggy style, she'll still love this position.
stoop doggy dog
Come on, you knew this one was coming. Many women enjoy this position very much because it allows the man to penetrate them fully. As well, you can cup her body by leaning forward and holding her whilst keeping a constant rhythm.
To add variety to this position, let her lie almost flat on the bed while you remain in the same position. This way, you can move at a leisurely pace and even position your body on top of hers to kiss her back. Under no circumstances, however, should you let your weight fall on her, otherwise you'll be doing it doggy with the blowup doll in your closet.
positions please/B>
Now obviously all women differ, and so not every woman will enjoy the positions I've mentioned. The idea behind sexuality is to understand what the other person likes by getting to know them.
So stop poking anything that looks at you more than once and place some meaning into your sex life. And if you need more help improving your love life, check out the Sinclair Institute and BetterSex.com.
More often than not, women are assertive and no longer behave like quiet little mice when it comes to sexual scenarios. Actually, the fact that most guys try so hard (there's that play on words again) to get their women to achieve orgasm is quite evident of this fact.
The following are five sexual positions that many women enjoy. So the next time you're about to get down to the nitty-gritty with your woman, try the following positions and ensure that she receives some great orgasmic pleasure.
private lap dance
Some women love being on top when it comes to sex. Why? It's all about control, and having the liberty of getting herself off is quite tantalizing. If she likes, she can give herself a clitoral or G-spot orgasm, or even both (with your help, of course).
If she lies on top of you and sways back and forth, pressing against your pubic bone, then she's aiming for the clitty climax. If she remains erect but leans forward, resting her weight on her hands while she goes up and down in a constant motion, get ready because she's doing her G-thing.
Then again, there are those multi-talented women that are able to take a man deep inside their vagina, swivel their hips as though they're dancing, and all the while, they periodically squeeze their Kegel muscles. This drives me... I mean men wild.
An even crazier position involves her squatting -- she kneels on her feet and only her vagina and your penis are connected (literally). This is quite an enticing position for both parties involved, although she must have stamina to keep it up.
The best thing about having your woman on top is that you get to watch her enjoy and pleasure herself with your body. You get to watch as she reaches immeasurable orgasmic heights while your hands are free to rub, hold, scratch, and maneuver her taut body.
the comfort zone
Believe it or not, lots of women love the missionary position. Yes, now I know that this position is considered to be the flannel pajamas of sex, but sex doesn't always have to involve swinging from the chandeliers and rough play.
Sometimes women (and even men, believe it or not) want to make "body love," which involves a whole lot more than just a vagina, breasts and a penis. There's eye contact, body massaging, and silent communication -- women love feeling like they're at the center of a man's world and what better way to show her you love her than to literally make love with her?
You don't have to keep up the typical in-out in-out motions of missionary either. Place a pillow under her buttocks, hold your upper body up with your arms, or even hold her butt with your hands (and she can do the same) -- all the while maneuvering as though you're dancing inside her body.
stand at erection
Although chances are that you won't last for very long in this position (I know I always lose control), an orgasm (or two) is virtually guaranteed for her with this one. Have her sit up on a countertop, tabletop, washing machine, sink -- any surface that'll have her at the perfect thrust position.
Standing in front of her while she's spread eagle (legs open), plunge yourself inside. Because you're going deep within her, it's sure to cause you to reach climax somewhat quickly. As well, you'll be tapping her G-spot at a constant pace and you may even get her to ejaculate all over your member.
Also, since you're out of the bedroom, it adds an element of intrigue and excitement for both of you. Sometimes, even women want to get to the orgasm part of lovemaking rather than have elaborate "last forever" sex. So read your partner's messages and if she's in the mood to reach immediate heights of pleasure, then give the lady what she wants.
She wants you to try the spoon position..
spooning it
While she's lying down on her side with her back facing you, you can let yourself inside her from behind. The great thing about this position is that you can hug her, whisper dirty little things in her ear, rub her breasts, feel the silhouette of her body, and kiss, suck and lick her neck and back.
Also, you can vary this position: she can turn her body so that her legs go over yours (her feet are in front of your butt) and she can look at you while you penetrate her at will. This position, as well as the "spoon," is not intended to be fast-paced, but rather slow and rhythmic.
The great thing about this position is that it allows for slow maneuvering and makes women feel like you're enjoying their entire body rather than just the sexualized parts. Even if she can't stand doggy style, she'll still love this position.
stoop doggy dog
Come on, you knew this one was coming. Many women enjoy this position very much because it allows the man to penetrate them fully. As well, you can cup her body by leaning forward and holding her whilst keeping a constant rhythm.
To add variety to this position, let her lie almost flat on the bed while you remain in the same position. This way, you can move at a leisurely pace and even position your body on top of hers to kiss her back. Under no circumstances, however, should you let your weight fall on her, otherwise you'll be doing it doggy with the blowup doll in your closet.
positions please/B>
Now obviously all women differ, and so not every woman will enjoy the positions I've mentioned. The idea behind sexuality is to understand what the other person likes by getting to know them.
So stop poking anything that looks at you more than once and place some meaning into your sex life. And if you need more help improving your love life, check out the Sinclair Institute and BetterSex.com.
Is She A Virgin?
extra, extra virgin
Virgin in the dictionary is defined as, "being in a pure or natural state; unsullied. Unused, uncultivated, or unexplored." Nowadays it seems that the only virgins left are our spade and neutered domestic pets, and even they still get excited around the opposite sex.
But nevertheless, if you do happen to come across a unicorn, I mean a virgin, and she has never gone beyond kissing a man, let alone performed any oral ordeals, then she is a genuine, honest to goodness virgin. Now, whether or not you have the patience to wait around until she's ready to let you play around her privates with your slinky is a whole other matter altogether.
But be careful, no woman ever forgets her first, not necessarily because it was such an incredible experience, but rather because she let that person take something that she can never get back. Virginity is prized by most and women who are willing to give it to you habitually have a hard time letting go if things aren't working out.
extra virgin
If your woman has had a couple of boyfriends but has never been prodded in any orifices, then she too can be considered a virgin, but with a twist. Perhaps a couple of guys have managed to caress her breasts and perhaps even given them a lick or two, but that's still pretty tame compared to today's world of bestiality and S&M.
If you're patient and think that she may be the one -- or more importantly, she thinks you're the one, then you may be the lucky guy that gets to delve into her uncharted waters. You and she can explore things and if she has been dying to unleash the beast within, then your sexual compatibility may lie within her (so to speak).
experimental virgin
Now, onto the juicy part. There are those women that believe that if they perform oral sex on every boyfriend they've ever had, and let him get his fingers sticky every now and then, that they're still virgins. Now they may bleed a bit the first time they have sex, but are they really virgins?
They have experience. I mean if she just lies there the first time you insert your member, but can play the flute on your instrument like she's written symphonies, has she really maintained her purity? At what point do we draw the line? When has the line between purity and experience been crossed?
I personally don't think that a girl who can inhale a kielbasa like it's a toothpick necessarily connotes the virgin type. If virginity lies in a hole and is not about experience, then our society has a very warped definition of what virginity really is.
the anal incubator
Believe it or not, there are gals out there who will let you get into their anal canals, but will still aver that they are virgins. Carnal desires are natural, but anal sex, as well as oral sex (despite what Clinton says), has the word "sex" attached to it because that's exactly what it is. And once you have sex, you are no longer a virgin. Case closed.
So these women are under the illusion that as long as their vaginas remain untouched by the almighty penis, they can still claim to be pure. Pure crud, that is. And if men seem to think that this is a viable argument, then they're just horny and have no qualms about taking the back way in.
the lying virgin
For some lucky women, the vagina shrinks back to its original size if they don't have sex for a while, and the next time they do engage in carnal activity, they bleed. Now does that make them virgins? I don't think so. But that's not what I'm referring to; I'm talking about the women who feel that they have to lie as though not being virgins somehow implies that they're not good women.
In today's world, finding a virgin is as common as seeing Britney Spears in a turtleneck. So why do some women insist on fibbing and saying they are when they're not? That'll probably remain a mystery considering there are a multitude of reasons available. It's funny because it seems that gentlemen are no longer searching for virgins, but rather nice girls who have their head screwed on straight and have a wild streak behind closed doors.
And in hindsight, would men prefer a woman who just lay there and let him do everything because she's "never done this before," or would he prefer a girl who has experience and can ride him like a cowboy (given that she hasn't bedded the town and the farm animals)? You be the judge.
secondary virginity
If there's ever been an oxymoron that blew me away, this one is it. The point of virginity is that once it's gone, it's gone for good. And no matter how long a woman waits, it's not coming back. So these women that say that they've had sex in the past, but now want to wait until they're married before having sex again are really in a league of their own.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to wait until marriage, but let's call it something different, shall we? How about, "it didn't feel good the first time" or "I made a big mistake?" It's definitely not virginity at the secondary, elementary, or even sedentary level for that matter.
If you met a woman and she told you that she has had sex in the past but won't have it again until she's married, wouldn't you be a little miffed that another guy got the goods and yet you can't? I would certainly feel a tinge of anger at the notion if my man wouldn't let me get at the goods that his former girlfriend had full access to. But that's just me.
why is it important?
What makes women feel that they still have to claim that they are chaste even if they're not? Is virginity still as prized as it once was or has our society become oversexed and numbed by the media?
Obviously there are some very virtuous women who may or may not be virgins, but that's not what's important. What's important is finding someone who is not just compatible on the communicative, intelligent and attractive levels, but on a sexual level as well.
So find yourself a woman who makes your heart (among other things) pulsate and enjoy your time with her. And always wear a condom, even if she's a "virgin."
Virgin in the dictionary is defined as, "being in a pure or natural state; unsullied. Unused, uncultivated, or unexplored." Nowadays it seems that the only virgins left are our spade and neutered domestic pets, and even they still get excited around the opposite sex.
But nevertheless, if you do happen to come across a unicorn, I mean a virgin, and she has never gone beyond kissing a man, let alone performed any oral ordeals, then she is a genuine, honest to goodness virgin. Now, whether or not you have the patience to wait around until she's ready to let you play around her privates with your slinky is a whole other matter altogether.
But be careful, no woman ever forgets her first, not necessarily because it was such an incredible experience, but rather because she let that person take something that she can never get back. Virginity is prized by most and women who are willing to give it to you habitually have a hard time letting go if things aren't working out.
extra virgin
If your woman has had a couple of boyfriends but has never been prodded in any orifices, then she too can be considered a virgin, but with a twist. Perhaps a couple of guys have managed to caress her breasts and perhaps even given them a lick or two, but that's still pretty tame compared to today's world of bestiality and S&M.
If you're patient and think that she may be the one -- or more importantly, she thinks you're the one, then you may be the lucky guy that gets to delve into her uncharted waters. You and she can explore things and if she has been dying to unleash the beast within, then your sexual compatibility may lie within her (so to speak).
experimental virgin
Now, onto the juicy part. There are those women that believe that if they perform oral sex on every boyfriend they've ever had, and let him get his fingers sticky every now and then, that they're still virgins. Now they may bleed a bit the first time they have sex, but are they really virgins?
They have experience. I mean if she just lies there the first time you insert your member, but can play the flute on your instrument like she's written symphonies, has she really maintained her purity? At what point do we draw the line? When has the line between purity and experience been crossed?
I personally don't think that a girl who can inhale a kielbasa like it's a toothpick necessarily connotes the virgin type. If virginity lies in a hole and is not about experience, then our society has a very warped definition of what virginity really is.
the anal incubator
Believe it or not, there are gals out there who will let you get into their anal canals, but will still aver that they are virgins. Carnal desires are natural, but anal sex, as well as oral sex (despite what Clinton says), has the word "sex" attached to it because that's exactly what it is. And once you have sex, you are no longer a virgin. Case closed.
So these women are under the illusion that as long as their vaginas remain untouched by the almighty penis, they can still claim to be pure. Pure crud, that is. And if men seem to think that this is a viable argument, then they're just horny and have no qualms about taking the back way in.
the lying virgin
For some lucky women, the vagina shrinks back to its original size if they don't have sex for a while, and the next time they do engage in carnal activity, they bleed. Now does that make them virgins? I don't think so. But that's not what I'm referring to; I'm talking about the women who feel that they have to lie as though not being virgins somehow implies that they're not good women.
In today's world, finding a virgin is as common as seeing Britney Spears in a turtleneck. So why do some women insist on fibbing and saying they are when they're not? That'll probably remain a mystery considering there are a multitude of reasons available. It's funny because it seems that gentlemen are no longer searching for virgins, but rather nice girls who have their head screwed on straight and have a wild streak behind closed doors.
And in hindsight, would men prefer a woman who just lay there and let him do everything because she's "never done this before," or would he prefer a girl who has experience and can ride him like a cowboy (given that she hasn't bedded the town and the farm animals)? You be the judge.
secondary virginity
If there's ever been an oxymoron that blew me away, this one is it. The point of virginity is that once it's gone, it's gone for good. And no matter how long a woman waits, it's not coming back. So these women that say that they've had sex in the past, but now want to wait until they're married before having sex again are really in a league of their own.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to wait until marriage, but let's call it something different, shall we? How about, "it didn't feel good the first time" or "I made a big mistake?" It's definitely not virginity at the secondary, elementary, or even sedentary level for that matter.
If you met a woman and she told you that she has had sex in the past but won't have it again until she's married, wouldn't you be a little miffed that another guy got the goods and yet you can't? I would certainly feel a tinge of anger at the notion if my man wouldn't let me get at the goods that his former girlfriend had full access to. But that's just me.
why is it important?
What makes women feel that they still have to claim that they are chaste even if they're not? Is virginity still as prized as it once was or has our society become oversexed and numbed by the media?
Obviously there are some very virtuous women who may or may not be virgins, but that's not what's important. What's important is finding someone who is not just compatible on the communicative, intelligent and attractive levels, but on a sexual level as well.
So find yourself a woman who makes your heart (among other things) pulsate and enjoy your time with her. And always wear a condom, even if she's a "virgin."
6 Sex Positions With A Twist
Chances are, if you've been having sex for a while now, you feel like you've tried all sex positions known to man, but you know what? You probably haven't.
That said, why not turn these everyday sex positions into something crazy by adding some little twists. Your girl will keel over with pleasure.
1- Doggy leg lift
The next time your girl assumes the doggy position, simply lift her leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate her even deeper and your testicles will gently tap against her clitoris more prominently. Or, you can even use your free hand to massage her clitoris and drive her mad.
2- Missionary with pillows
Have your girl lie down on the bed, knees bent, feet planted on the bed. Place a couple of pillows under her ass. This not only allows you to penetrate her more deeply, it provides crazy clitoral stimulation and may well have you both reaching orgasm at the same time.
3- Spoon split
The awesome thing about spooning is that women feel like you're being incredibly affectionate. You also have better access to her body, and can maneuver her around more easily. Next time you decide to spoon, have her twist her body a little so you have access to her breasts. Then, lift one of her legs and either hold it up or try placing it behind you.
4- Reverse cowgirl squat
Instead of her riding you the typical way, kneel down and rest your ass on your heels. Now with her back to you, get her to squat up and down on your penis. If her legs aren't strong enough, she may have to lean on her hands, which is great considering you'll get an optimal view.
5- Standing rhythm
The next time you and your woman decide to stand in front of a mirror and watch yourselves have sex, add a little rhythm to your routine. Have her bend down so that her body is at a 90 angle, legs as straight as possible. Now, as you stand behind her giving her a dose of your mad moves, rotate your hips while you go in and out, slowly. And above all else, look at her body, make turned-on sounds, and then look into her eyes. Finally, give that sweet ass a smack and rub it better.
6- 69 + 1
Now, when you think of the 69 position, you imagine oral sex, of course. But rather than alter the actual position, alter the technique instead. To begin, rather than have one of you on top of the other, lay side by side, as this gives both of you the freedom to maneuver. Now, use your fingers to enhance your oral expertise. Rub her clitoris, penetrate her, do whatever it takes to make her lose control, but not so much that she stops sucking...
That said, why not turn these everyday sex positions into something crazy by adding some little twists. Your girl will keel over with pleasure.
1- Doggy leg lift
The next time your girl assumes the doggy position, simply lift her leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate her even deeper and your testicles will gently tap against her clitoris more prominently. Or, you can even use your free hand to massage her clitoris and drive her mad.
2- Missionary with pillows
Have your girl lie down on the bed, knees bent, feet planted on the bed. Place a couple of pillows under her ass. This not only allows you to penetrate her more deeply, it provides crazy clitoral stimulation and may well have you both reaching orgasm at the same time.
3- Spoon split
The awesome thing about spooning is that women feel like you're being incredibly affectionate. You also have better access to her body, and can maneuver her around more easily. Next time you decide to spoon, have her twist her body a little so you have access to her breasts. Then, lift one of her legs and either hold it up or try placing it behind you.
4- Reverse cowgirl squat
Instead of her riding you the typical way, kneel down and rest your ass on your heels. Now with her back to you, get her to squat up and down on your penis. If her legs aren't strong enough, she may have to lean on her hands, which is great considering you'll get an optimal view.
5- Standing rhythm
The next time you and your woman decide to stand in front of a mirror and watch yourselves have sex, add a little rhythm to your routine. Have her bend down so that her body is at a 90 angle, legs as straight as possible. Now, as you stand behind her giving her a dose of your mad moves, rotate your hips while you go in and out, slowly. And above all else, look at her body, make turned-on sounds, and then look into her eyes. Finally, give that sweet ass a smack and rub it better.
6- 69 + 1
Now, when you think of the 69 position, you imagine oral sex, of course. But rather than alter the actual position, alter the technique instead. To begin, rather than have one of you on top of the other, lay side by side, as this gives both of you the freedom to maneuver. Now, use your fingers to enhance your oral expertise. Rub her clitoris, penetrate her, do whatever it takes to make her lose control, but not so much that she stops sucking...
Become a Better Lover - 10 Common Mistakes Guys Make!
If you want to become a better lover you need to avoid the mistakes below and they are all surprisingly common.
Avoid the mistakes, take note of the tips and you are guaranteed to become a better, more considerate andmore thoughtful lover, who will please your partner.
So here are 10 common mistakes made in sex and how to become a better lover.
Mistake 1 Being To Quick
Women generally have a different attitude to sex than men and most do not want to be treated as sex objects. So, take note and be considerate.
Treat your partner with the respect they deserve and don't appear you are just after one thing.
Mistake 2 Not Kissing
In a recent poll 90% of women claimed their partners did not kiss them enough!
So make sure sex is preceded by plenty of kissing and cuddling Most women love the intimacy of a kiss! So give your partner what they want.
Mistake 3 Neglecting Female Erogenous Zones
We all know the common erogenous zones such as the clitoris, or the breasts and we have given you another one above the lips.
There are however many more.
Great areas to target are the neck (kissing and nibbling of the neck is highly erotic) and the bottom.
The bottom is an area all women tend to be conscious of so, kiss it caress and make sure your partner knows you love it.
Other great erogenous zones to touch and kiss are the inner thighs (she knows what's coming next) the feet, the back of the knees, the spine and lower back (just at the end of the spine is a highly sensitive area)
These areas will drive your partner wild so target them.
Mistake 4: Complicated Positions Are Best.
No there not!
Quite simply, if a position is to complicated you will spend more time trying to keep the positions going than you will on focusing on pleasing your partner.
There is no correlation between how complicated a position is and how much satisfaction you and your partner derive from it.
Mistake 5 Not Knowing The Best G Spot Positions
There are three great positions for sex there not difficult to do and there not complicated and they are guaranteed to give your partner a mind blowing orgasm.
Why because they are a great way to hit the g spot
We don't have time to explain them in this article but have written several other articles on top positions so check them out.
Mistake 6: Keeping your weight off the woman in sex positions.
Contrary to common myth, women like their partner to press against them and most women like to feel their partner press against them and not stand of them.
Many women like to be pressured by at least some of their partner's weight so they can feel them and feel their weight.
Be sensible here she doesn't want to be crushed, but wants to feel you close
Mistake 7: Women on top, don't make them work to hard.
For most women, sex a passive activity except when she is on top.
Most men take this as a signal to lie back and let her do the work.
Most women prefer some action back, as it is her penetrating your body and she wants to see some reaction as you do from her when you are on top.
Mistake 8: Pleasing Yourself
Of course, you want please yourself but you also need to take your partners feelings into consideration and this leads onto the next point:
Mistake 9: Communicating
Don't be shy about communicating with your partner about what you like and ask them what they like.
Many couples don't want to talk frankly about their desires and this means that they never get what they really want.
Communication is the key to good sex so don't be embarrassed talk to each other and learn each others innermost desires and then try and satisfy them.
This also applies to things you don't like.
Mistake 10 When It's Over It's Over
You finish sex and you're straight off to the shower making coffee or rushing out the door Big mistake!
Why?
This leads on from the point we made earlier in the article that women do not like to be seen as sex objects.
Let them know how much you enjoyed sex with them kiss cuddle, hold and compliment them.
This will go a long way to showing you as a man who cares and most women love this!
So there you have 10 mistakes that are easy to correct and if you do, your partner is sure to appreciate it.
Avoid the mistakes, take note of the tips and you are guaranteed to become a better, more considerate andmore thoughtful lover, who will please your partner.
So here are 10 common mistakes made in sex and how to become a better lover.
Mistake 1 Being To Quick
Women generally have a different attitude to sex than men and most do not want to be treated as sex objects. So, take note and be considerate.
Treat your partner with the respect they deserve and don't appear you are just after one thing.
Mistake 2 Not Kissing
In a recent poll 90% of women claimed their partners did not kiss them enough!
So make sure sex is preceded by plenty of kissing and cuddling Most women love the intimacy of a kiss! So give your partner what they want.
Mistake 3 Neglecting Female Erogenous Zones
We all know the common erogenous zones such as the clitoris, or the breasts and we have given you another one above the lips.
There are however many more.
Great areas to target are the neck (kissing and nibbling of the neck is highly erotic) and the bottom.
The bottom is an area all women tend to be conscious of so, kiss it caress and make sure your partner knows you love it.
Other great erogenous zones to touch and kiss are the inner thighs (she knows what's coming next) the feet, the back of the knees, the spine and lower back (just at the end of the spine is a highly sensitive area)
These areas will drive your partner wild so target them.
Mistake 4: Complicated Positions Are Best.
No there not!
Quite simply, if a position is to complicated you will spend more time trying to keep the positions going than you will on focusing on pleasing your partner.
There is no correlation between how complicated a position is and how much satisfaction you and your partner derive from it.
Mistake 5 Not Knowing The Best G Spot Positions
There are three great positions for sex there not difficult to do and there not complicated and they are guaranteed to give your partner a mind blowing orgasm.
Why because they are a great way to hit the g spot
We don't have time to explain them in this article but have written several other articles on top positions so check them out.
Mistake 6: Keeping your weight off the woman in sex positions.
Contrary to common myth, women like their partner to press against them and most women like to feel their partner press against them and not stand of them.
Many women like to be pressured by at least some of their partner's weight so they can feel them and feel their weight.
Be sensible here she doesn't want to be crushed, but wants to feel you close
Mistake 7: Women on top, don't make them work to hard.
For most women, sex a passive activity except when she is on top.
Most men take this as a signal to lie back and let her do the work.
Most women prefer some action back, as it is her penetrating your body and she wants to see some reaction as you do from her when you are on top.
Mistake 8: Pleasing Yourself
Of course, you want please yourself but you also need to take your partners feelings into consideration and this leads onto the next point:
Mistake 9: Communicating
Don't be shy about communicating with your partner about what you like and ask them what they like.
Many couples don't want to talk frankly about their desires and this means that they never get what they really want.
Communication is the key to good sex so don't be embarrassed talk to each other and learn each others innermost desires and then try and satisfy them.
This also applies to things you don't like.
Mistake 10 When It's Over It's Over
You finish sex and you're straight off to the shower making coffee or rushing out the door Big mistake!
Why?
This leads on from the point we made earlier in the article that women do not like to be seen as sex objects.
Let them know how much you enjoyed sex with them kiss cuddle, hold and compliment them.
This will go a long way to showing you as a man who cares and most women love this!
So there you have 10 mistakes that are easy to correct and if you do, your partner is sure to appreciate it.
First Time Sex - Losing your Virginity
First time sex is never as straightforward as most people believe. In fact, the expectations usually far exceed the experience. For the male, it may be over all too soon, without a great deal of satisfaction.
Lets look at first time sex from both a male and female perspective and how to approach this critical time in all our lives.
For the female, it can be fraught with pain instead of pleasure, and with a quick ending, far from a pleasurable experience. Approached correctly, however, first time sex can be rewarding and fulfilling instead of the opposite.
The Virgin Male
Depending on where his information can from (about the sexual experience) his basic knowledge will be limited to theory and masturbation.
Neither theory nor masturbation prepares a virgin male for a first time sexual experience.
The conversations of peers also can fill the first timer with misconceptions and wrong expectations.
The Virgin Female
Depending on her age, the virgin female may have had numerous clitoral orgasms. A first time sexual experience and “the force of man” can provide many unexpected situations, and feelings.
If her hymen is in tact, she may be in for some real pain as well.
If there has not been sufficient foreplay, there may not also enough lubrication prior to the male insertion.
The female may be very young and also with high expectations. Certainly if the act is about 20 seconds, and all she felt was pain and pressure, her romantic expectations will not have been fulfilled.
Preparation
It is advised that the couple experiment first with mutual masturbation.
This way the partner learns something about the other’s anatomy, and the stimulation (which can be overwhelming) can result in orgasms without penetration at the start.
This technique can lead into another session (after some recovery time, say 45 minutes) where penetration can begin.
The female should insist (and the male must agree) to use of a condom.
However in a warm-up session (that will almost always end up with a male orgasm), a condom need not be used.
In the second or third attempt, where penetration is the goal, the male’s penis would have been desensitized by the all the preliminaries.
Oral sex for first timers is a good idea, but difficult to be good at.
With two inexperienced partners, oral sex or mutual oral sex may end up as a messy and non-romantic prelude to penetration.
Therefore, unless one of the two partners really have some experience in oral sex, it’s best left for another time.
Time to Penetrate
If the female is a virgin with her hymen intact, the couple should use Astrolube or KY (or similar) that will help reduce the initial friction.
With adequate lubrication (and the female wont have much of her own if she is afraid of the act, even though she is willing. Use adequate lubrication.
The best first time sex position is with the female laying her side, and the male in back of her, with their legs lightly bent at the knees.
The couple sort of resembles 2 spoons. The male can caress the female, and hold her, while the female can assist the male to insert his penis easily into her vagina.
As the couple is on their sides, the female can sort of regulate the pressure, and the depth o f the male’s penetration.
If she feels pain, the female can alter the depth of the penis and even the angle.
Usually the first times will finish in less than 5 minutes. The man can continue to hold the female tightly and caress here, and tell to her sweet things about their experience.
Following the above will save the couple some pain and hurt feelings. We wish you good luck, and hope to what you learned here into your later sexual lives.
Lets look at first time sex from both a male and female perspective and how to approach this critical time in all our lives.
For the female, it can be fraught with pain instead of pleasure, and with a quick ending, far from a pleasurable experience. Approached correctly, however, first time sex can be rewarding and fulfilling instead of the opposite.
The Virgin Male
Depending on where his information can from (about the sexual experience) his basic knowledge will be limited to theory and masturbation.
Neither theory nor masturbation prepares a virgin male for a first time sexual experience.
The conversations of peers also can fill the first timer with misconceptions and wrong expectations.
The Virgin Female
Depending on her age, the virgin female may have had numerous clitoral orgasms. A first time sexual experience and “the force of man” can provide many unexpected situations, and feelings.
If her hymen is in tact, she may be in for some real pain as well.
If there has not been sufficient foreplay, there may not also enough lubrication prior to the male insertion.
The female may be very young and also with high expectations. Certainly if the act is about 20 seconds, and all she felt was pain and pressure, her romantic expectations will not have been fulfilled.
Preparation
It is advised that the couple experiment first with mutual masturbation.
This way the partner learns something about the other’s anatomy, and the stimulation (which can be overwhelming) can result in orgasms without penetration at the start.
This technique can lead into another session (after some recovery time, say 45 minutes) where penetration can begin.
The female should insist (and the male must agree) to use of a condom.
However in a warm-up session (that will almost always end up with a male orgasm), a condom need not be used.
In the second or third attempt, where penetration is the goal, the male’s penis would have been desensitized by the all the preliminaries.
Oral sex for first timers is a good idea, but difficult to be good at.
With two inexperienced partners, oral sex or mutual oral sex may end up as a messy and non-romantic prelude to penetration.
Therefore, unless one of the two partners really have some experience in oral sex, it’s best left for another time.
Time to Penetrate
If the female is a virgin with her hymen intact, the couple should use Astrolube or KY (or similar) that will help reduce the initial friction.
With adequate lubrication (and the female wont have much of her own if she is afraid of the act, even though she is willing. Use adequate lubrication.
The best first time sex position is with the female laying her side, and the male in back of her, with their legs lightly bent at the knees.
The couple sort of resembles 2 spoons. The male can caress the female, and hold her, while the female can assist the male to insert his penis easily into her vagina.
As the couple is on their sides, the female can sort of regulate the pressure, and the depth o f the male’s penetration.
If she feels pain, the female can alter the depth of the penis and even the angle.
Usually the first times will finish in less than 5 minutes. The man can continue to hold the female tightly and caress here, and tell to her sweet things about their experience.
Following the above will save the couple some pain and hurt feelings. We wish you good luck, and hope to what you learned here into your later sexual lives.
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